『放手不管』並不容易，特別當我們不安、或天性愛掌控人事時。
一個太太嚷著：『但有時，我老公簡直要把我搞瘋了』
。。
聽聽妳老公的心聲吧！
。。也許妳讓他一樣難受。
世上沒有兩個人是百分之百契合、凡事同心的。
『放手』，不意味『你冷漠不在乎對方』，
卻是安心容許對方為結果負責、且能從中學習，
也是因為了解『我們唯一能改變的人』就是自己而已，
那充分表達了你『少一點惶恐、多一點信心』的平安
。
對誰的信心？
上帝！ 
Keeping our hands off certain things isn't easy,
especially when we're insecure or controlling by nature.
" But sometimes my husband drives me crazy ".
Maybe you drive him crazy too !
No two people are a hundred percent compatible.
Letting go doesn't mean you don't care,
it just means allowing others to learn from their consequences.
It's about realizing that the only person you can change is you.
It's about fearing less and trusting more.
In whom to trust ？
God！！
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